The Life-Changing Habit of Asking Better Questions

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@habitsguy The Life-Changing Habit of Asking Better Questions

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“Thinking is just the process of asking and answering questions.” - Tony Robbins

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This message encapsulates a good deal of the value in asking questions.

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But we pay very little attention to questions specifically designed to help someone understand their internal landscape.

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Learn more about yourself and others by asking better questions.

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1 Judgmental Questions

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The purpose behind the question is to accuse.

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While the intonation of a phrase will imply a question, tone and attitude might express outrage or scorn.

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Judgmental questions are useful to recognize because we do ask them regularly, and often without realizing it.

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2 Questions to Learn

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The primary drive behind these questions is to gain new information: learn why something has happened or why someone behaved in a specific way.

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These questions are directive, with a very clear intent from the questioner, but they need not be accusatory.

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Questions to learn are a very useful form of questioning, whether you are the one asking or the subject of the inquisition.

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3 Questions to Teach

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These questions are usually intentionally asked, resulting from the questioner considering the impact of their question on their audience.

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They are by far the most effective method of helping another individual uncover a specific answer or outcome.

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By leaving “bread crumbs” a teacher is able to help a student to discover their own answer.

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4 Questions to Explore

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These are asked with no agenda but with love.

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These are rare because they are non-directive and accepting.

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Loving questions provide the person being asked the opportunity to discover an internal answer about themselves and the invitation to fully accept themselves in that moment.

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All of us have the ability to connect with other people, intimately and lovingly, just by listening and asking questions.

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Simply by attending to the questions we ask, we can make a substantial difference in another person’s life.

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